Joanna@JoannaMeriwether.com

Category: Sex Surge

what do you want? woo it

For me, there is nothing sexier than the truth. Even when the truth hurts, I’d rather hear it than not. (Because what’s the other option? To be lied to? That’s a bonerkiller, my friend. Every time.) Last week, I discovered I missed an opportunity to tell the truth- and I felt twinges of regret all these years…
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The Big Reason Your (Potential) Affair Person Will Always Be Awesome

One of the toughest aspects of living through the Sex Surge is dealing with our feelings of sexual attraction and desire. Especially if those feelings are not for our primary partner. Often there is a sense of aliveness, beauty, and escape that comes along with the attraction to another person. And those feelings are pretty…
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The Three Wishes You Will Make During the Sex Surge

Almost like sex itself, the Sex Surge is made up of phases, one flowing into the other. First is the increase in libido, which you may not even notice for years (I didn’t!). Second is a time of intense libido; for some it feels like a continuous plateau, for others it is the mountaintop – a…
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The 28 Reasons Our Friendship Has to Chill, Now That I’m In The Sex Surge

Interestingly enough, I think I am coming to the end of the Sex Surge. My thyroid has been low-functioning for more than a year now, and that really messed with my hormones. My libido has changed a lot (it sometimes has been nearly non-existent) and so have my emotions and desires. This was bound to…
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