Category: sex and relationships

The Big Reason Your (Potential) Affair Person Will Always Be Awesome

One of the toughest aspects of living through the Sex Surge is dealing with our feelings of sexual attraction and desire. Especially if those feelings are not for our primary partner. Often there is a sense of aliveness, beauty, and escape that comes along with the attraction to another person. And those feelings are pretty…
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When Your Partner Is Not Your Everything Anymore

There can come a startling realization at mid-life: that our spouse is no longer our everything. This realization is so hard to take that I think many people avoid it all together (‘let’s just continue on as we have…’). But for those who do allow this idea, feeling, or awareness to sit inside their minds,…
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