Category: relationships

light in a spiral over a beach scape as a symbol of moving forward with your life

the TYT sessions

One of the things I see, over and over again, in my practice and in the lives of mid-life women (especially mid-life women!) is the importance of telling the truth. Maybe this seems like an obvious statement, but – as women – we are so often encouraged to not tell the truth. It’s not just…
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a ticket booth as metaphor for traveling to sensuality

the gate you want to go through…but don’t

A dear friend from high school stopped over for tea on Monday. She and I were soul-buddies in high school, lost touch as we adulted, and then found each other again three or four years ago. Sometimes, a soul buddy remains a soul buddy your whole life. And so, when she comes over, we chat…
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two hands clutching each other with the words "the thing about loving two people" imposed over them

the thing about loving two people

I am never quite sure whether I can say that I loved my FF or not. I cared about him a lot. I wanted what was best for him (as much as I thought I knew what that was). I had a super case of The Hots for him. I worried about him and wanted…
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sun setting behind a dying plant with the words 'divorce at mid-life' over the top

divorce at mid-life

“What do you think about divorce at mid-life or in peri-menopause?” she asked me. I think she was wondering if I worried about hormones influencing women’s decisions in these stages of life. Could a woman’s estrogen or Sex Surge hormones cause her to make a bad decision? It’s an important question. And in this post I…
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