Category: libido increase in women

Let me tell you about this tattoo… :: Sex Surge Class ::

Every tattoo has a story. I got this one when I was going through the Sex Surge®.     Nine years ago, my libido started changing. Drastically. Like, through the roof, drastically. I felt like the stereotypical 18 year-old boy: thinking about sex all the time, wanting as much as I could get. My poor…
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a background with colorful circles and the words "the big R, the book, and mid-life power' across the middle

The ‘Big R,’ the book, and #midlifepower :: a delightful mish-mash

So, when I first started dealing with the Sex Surge, I knew I needed to protect it. Not to be territorial or gross, but just to say, “I named this and defined it and I will accept no substitutes.” Rawr! So, I applied for a trademark for the phrase last year. And two weeks ago,…
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altar candles burning with the words "Religion and the Sex Surge' at the top

Religion and the Sex Surge

The Sex Surge can be really overwhelming and frustrating- even at the same time that it’s fun and exciting. And if you are a woman who deeply identifies with her religion, especially some forms of Christianity (both Catholicism and Protestantism, and also other branches like Mormonism), the Sex Surge can have an added layer of…
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a woman standing near a ocean as a metaphor for changing sexuality and welcoming sexual expression at mid-life

sexual exploration and expression at mid-life

Or: when you’re a heterosexual woman and you start finding other women sexy. So, I could try and write some kind of ‘think piece’ about how some famous women have discovered they have new sexual identities when they hit mid-life – Glennon Doyle comes to mind – but I don’t want to. I want to…
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