Category: anger + frustration

a hug. a drink. some love. :: support during the virus

“Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today, to get through this thing called Life.” – Prince   So. The corona virus. I have wanted to write something to support you all, but I couldn’t quite put things together in my head until today- today, when I finally felt a lot of things and had a…
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two red boxing gloves with the words "Using Anger Skillfully at Mid-Life" transposed over the top

Using Anger Skillfully at Mid-Life

Anger. It’s a thing in our life- in any human life. We know this. And we also know there are lots of cultural messages about how women are not supposed to get angry. Because we’re supposed to be ‘nice’ or ‘good’ or some other non-threatening thing. But..we get mad don’t we? Yes. And, especially in…
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The ‘gifts’ of clarity

I was finishing up the Lilith class last week (about ways to manage the Surge energy) and I wrote to them about one of the experiences of the Sex Surge® that really shaped me. It was one of the best and most awful moments of my Surge experience. And lest you think this story only…
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setting yourself up

I am finally moved into my new place, you guys. Whew! I’m sorry I haven’t been here the last couple of weeks, but it’s been kinda crazy! I am definitely getting back on my feet, or setting up some ‘new’ feet, and that’s what I want to talk about today- the crazy and the new,…
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