In ancient mythology, Lilith was the first wife of Adam, not made from his flesh. In this myth, she not only wanted to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, she also left Eden of her own accord, climbing up a tree and over the wall. Lilith refused to be boxed in. She fed her desires. She made her own way in the world.
When you’re in the Sex Surge, it can feel like you’re in a box that doesn’t work anymore. What society says about mid-life women and libido (that they don’t have one) definitely doesn’t fit anymore. And the options for how to live with a high libido (hide it) aren’t always the most useful. In this course, we are going to learn to live more like Lilith.
Lilith dared to take her own path. She went beyond ‘the rules’ and climbed that tree to learn more and see beyond her current vantage point. We will do the same. We are going to climb up in the tree of options for dealing with a high libido and start picking the fruit from the trees and see what pleases us most. We’re going to get a higher perspective so we can make decisions that work for us in the long term. We’re going to let our desire feed us, instead of being overwhelmed by it.
If you’re in the Sex Surge and the feelings and energy are sometimes overwhelming, this class is for you. This class is also for you if you’re feeling:
- like you are mostly handling it, but sometimes you’re not
- like you have to hide the symptoms of the Sex Surge because it might ruin something important to you
- like you have a couple of ‘go to’ ways to help yourself with the heightened sexual energy but you could use a few more
- like you just want to understand what the fuck is going on and how to help yourself
- if you’re contemplating an affair, think you might, or are already in one due to the Sex Surge
- if you need some different ways to look at what’s happening, because you suspect your brain has been hijacked, and help yourself make better decisions.
If you’re feeling any of these things, this class is going to help. Not only is it going to help, but if you do the work, you’ll have the tools to deal with whatever the Sex Surge brings you beyond this class and feel good about your decisions.
You don’t have to leap over the wall of your personal Eden if you don’t want to, but with these tools you’ll be able to feel more comfortable inside your body- even enjoy this energy! You’ll also know how to avoid mistakes in your thinking (induced by the Sex Surge). And you’ll be able to craft an entire orchard of options that will sustain you through the entirety of the Sex Surge.
So, what does this look class look like? Here are the details:
::: Dealing with the Sex Surge®
Healthy Tools for High Libido :::
This is a 12-week course.
Which sounds like a lot, but it isn’t.
For three weeks of each month, you will get an email – that you can read at your leisure! – that gives you practical tools to deal with the extra sexual energy and spend it in ways that will help you. You can try each of these tools during the week and see how well they work for you. You can also send me your feedback and questions, and I will answer them in the next week’s email.
The fourth week (I knew you were going to ask!) you will have a personal check-in session with me. This is a time to tweak any tools to make them most effective for you, but also time to get the support you need for your life and your unique challenges.
It looks like this:
Week 1: The Background of The Surge. Biology and brain chemistry.
Week 2: Making Decisions. The emotional impact of the Surge and how to make better decisions when your brain is high on sex.
Week 3: Tool 1* & Tool 2.
Week 4: Personal Check-in. **
(I use Skype, FaceTime, phone, or WhatsApp for calls, depending on location.)
Week 5: Tool 3
Week 6: Tool 4 and The Big Question that makes a huge difference if you have an FF.
Week 7: Tool 5
Week 8: Personal Check-in.
Week 9: Tool 6 & Tool 7.
Week 10: Talking about Affairs. What you need to know about them if you’re contemplating or already in one.
Week 11: Tool 8 and 9.
Week 12: Personal Check-in. During this last week you will also receive a PDF with all the tools in it- one place to refer to later!
* I’m not giving the Tools names here because I honestly haven’t decided on names or order yet. For sure there will be very practical Things You Can Do, but we will also be looking at tools that will help you express your sensual and sexual self and also tools that you can build and re-build as your needs shift through the Sex Surge.
** You are welcome to schedule the Personal Check-ins for any time that is available on my calendar, up until two weeks after the last class. Beyond that time, I will not honor any check-ins that were missed.
** If you live in a timezone far away from me, we will schedule your Personal Check-ins outside of my calendar, so I will contact you personally to set times for our meetings.
Fridays will be the email delivery day and your first email will arrive on Friday, June 29th, 2018.
:: What This Class Will Save You From ::
One thing I want to talk about, because I haven’t really talked from this perspective before, is that having this knowledge and these tools can save you a lot of time and money and frustration.
You might be thinking about going to a therapist (which I totally recommend in addition to this work), but they won’t understand the Sex Surge in the same way as someone who has been through it. It will take you two sessions just to get that information out in the open- with me you can hit the ground running. And, you get 12 weeks of help with me for the price of two therapy sessions!
If you’re thinking about an affair or divorce, this class will definitely save you time and money. We will be covering what happens during and after the Surge, how you should look at your partnership now, how to listen to your particular Surge journey to know if an affair or divorce is the right decision. Again, this could cost you thousands of dollars in time and money to figure out with other support people. With me, we do it all in one place.
Lastly, I truly believe, that if you engage with the tools and find what works for you, you will save yourself months of heartache, wasted time, and frustration. When I was going through the Sex Surge, I had to find these tools for myself. I had to work my ass (and soul) off to figure out what actually worked- what helped me have what I wanted without sacrificing things I cared about. It took me years to figure out. And you get this wisdom in a 12- week course. What is six years of frustration worth?
:: What This Class Will Give You ::
I cannot make guarantees about what will happen, because I don’t know how much each person will dig into the work. What I do know is:
- This class is designed to help you study at your own pace AND ALSO have accountability to actually finish and integrate what you learn because of the 1:1 Check-In Sessions.
- If you do the work, if you practice and experiment and give stuff a try, you will find ways to enjoy the energy of the Sex Surge rather than feeling like it’s running you.
- If you do the work, you will know how to make decisions that will feel good now and later (when the Surge is over).
- If you do the work, you will probably change parts of yourself- you will likely feel more confident, more settled, more joyful, and more accepting of yourself.
- If you simply do the reading, you will understand much more about the Surge and how to handle it. Even if all you do is the reading, you will be better equipped to handle the ups and downs of the Surge.
- You will also have a giant toolbox of information, ideas, and tools to work with the energy of the Sex Surge so you can enjoy the fruits of being your own woman and walking this path in a way that suits you and your life.
Because I have used these tools in my own life and with so many other clients, I know they have the power to truly change your life for the better.
:: If You Want To Join Us ::
This class is 12 weeks.
The cost is $375 USD in one payment or
$125 USD each month for 3 months (for this ‘subscription’ your ‘month’ starts on the first day you pay. If you pay on the 21st of June, your next payments will be on the 21st of July and the 21st of August).
This class costs less than one month of coaching with me ($500) and you will have the content in a PDF e-book to look at after (and all the emails, and the video Q&A feedback sessions).
:: What To Do Next ::
1. Choose your payment option below. One-time payment or installments.
2. Once you have paid, you will be directed to a webpage with scheduling details:
- the link to sign up for the email group and
- the link to schedule your 1:1 Check-In Sessions
3. Once you are added to the email list, you will receive your first email on Friday, June 29th, 2018.
Payment Option- Full Pay ($375 USD)
Payment Option- Monthly Installments/Subscription ($125 UDS/mo x 3 mos)
:: Still Have Questions? ::
If you still have questions, or are feeling a bit of “Fear Of Missing Out,” or if you want more details or just any old thing, please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org . I will happily answer questions or get on the phone with you for a quick Q&A session. I want this to be a good fit for us both!
I look forward to working with you and leaning into the goodness that our desires can give us.
Big love from the path,
Joanna :: xoxo