When I was going through the Sex Surge®, I read a lot of erotica. It was a non-destructive way to release some of my own sexual tension through scenarios that were different (or similar) to what I had been imagining with various lovers. There are a million types of erotica. Some involve siblings, mind control, […]
Avoid the Drama Void
Today I want to talk about something that happened to me in the Sex Surge, and something that has happened to other clients, but I think it doesn’t happen for everyone. I am quite sure it also happens to women going through the Mid-Life Stuff, because mid-life just makes these things real clear sometimes. But […]
The ‘gifts’ of clarity
I was finishing up the Lilith class last week (about ways to manage the Surge energy) and I wrote to them about one of the experiences of the Sex Surge® that really shaped me. It was one of the best and most awful moments of my Surge experience. And lest you think this story only […]
What To Do When It’s Too Intense
The seasons are transitioning right now. For my Northern hemisphere friends, we are moving into Fall. For my Southern hemisphere friends, we are moving into Spring. Those can be intense times- for some folks it effects them physically and emotionally. Mid-life has a wide variety of intense moments, too. I can remember the most intense […]
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